Transitions
Make the switch easier before it starts.
Transitions get harder when the next step feels sudden, unclear or unpredictable. Preparation does not guarantee a perfect transition, but it can reduce the amount of pressure packed into the moment.
Prepare before you ask for the switch.
The transition starts before you say, “It is time to go.”
Preview what is next
Use a short, specific cue.
Reduce surprise
Give enough warning to make the change understandable.
Prepare the object or environment
Shoes by the door, bag packed, next activity visible.
Make the next step smaller.
When the transition starts to stall, shorten the distance between where your child is and what needs to happen next.
One step at a time
Avoid giving the whole sequence at once.
Use familiar language
Repeat the same transition phrases.
Keep moving forward
Do not restart the whole negotiation every time resistance appears.
Build familiarity for next time.
The goal is not just getting through today. It is making the pattern more recognizable the next time it happens.
Notice what worked
Which cue, object or routine helped?
Repeat the useful parts
Consistency creates familiarity.
Change one friction point
Do not overhaul the whole routine at once.
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